Well the new year is upon us and I, like so many others, have come up with a few goals to achieve. My focus this year is on the direction I want to head in. I feel I’ve spent a lot of 2008 dealing with ground work and I want 2009 to be about taking control and steering my life.
Lets get the obvious out of the way …
1. Lose Weight.
This is on the agenda every year and I can say that so far it has been no more a failure than a success – in that I have neither gained or lost weight for around 5 years now. Let’s hope my new found drive and my newly purchased Wii Fit will make the necessary difference.
2. Be more pro-active.
The operative word being “more”. I am pro-active to a certain degree. I make things happen for me and my family, but there’s more to do. I need to push myself so that I am steering my life in the right direction every single day.
3. Be a better Dad.
People comment on how awesome my daughter is – and I whole heartedly agree. She is awesome. This is 99% my wife’s doing. She is just a fantastic mum. This year I aim to increase my involvement so that my wife can have a break once in a while.
4. Keep in touch with friends.
I have had one hell of a busy 2008 with a brand new baby, 3 different jobs and no holidays to speak of. I work 40 hours or more a week and most of my weekends have been taken up with gigs. This has lead me to be quite exhausted on a daily basis. I feel that I have been neglecting a lot of my friends of late and that needs to change. My friends are awesome and I know they will stand by me no matter what, but I still feel I need to hold up my end of the bargain. I will find the correct balance.
Below are some more specific goals …
5. Better guitarist.
I am no longer satisfied with just ‘getting by’ with my guitar playing. If you ask people, they will tell you I am a great player; but I know I can do better. I plan on both playing and seeing many more gigs this year. I love music, it’s as simple as that. I am lucky enough to be working with some of Melbourne’s top musicians and it’s time to lift my game.
6. Travel.
2009 marks 20 years since I have been overseas. My last trip was to the UK in 1989. I think it’s about time I ventured out again – whether it be on my own or with my family.
7. Record.
My last CD was 11 tracks and was recorded in 2006 and released in 2007. I have no shortage of material and will get back in the studio again this year for another CD. This time I will hire an engineer so that I can concentrate on my playing. I will sell this one exclusively online and don’t really care how many get bought. This will be purely about the process.
365 Challenges …
After the success of my 365day Photo Challenge, I realised my ability to push myself to meet goals. There’s something about doing (or not doing) something for a year that makes me more eager to complete it. Plus, the further through the year you go, the more determined you get. I have named this the “365 Day effect”.
8. One Photo a day of my daughter.
This has been ongoing since she was born. She is now over 5 months old and we are up to around 160 photos. They have been an excellent way of seeing her growth and for marking her milestones. I am not sure how long this will continue but for now my plan is to give her a book on her birthday that portrays one whole year of her life. My hope is that when she is old enough, she will continue this herself.
9. No buying.
Anyone who knows me, knows this is a big one. Our emphasis over the last year has been on saving money. For the first time in our lives, my wife and I have been slowly pulling ahead financially. To accelerate things I have set myself a limit of $100. I am not allowed to purchase anything (or multiple things) for myself worth over that amount per month. So far the 365 effect has worked perfectly! I look at big screen TVs, Music PAs, Guitar Pedals and simply say, “it’ll have to wait until next year”.
10. Be happy.
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